Counter this with a big dose of consent culture.
We can assure you that nobody has more variety of porn content than we do.
We have been trying to keep things working and often talk about having a child.
But if you hide the genesis of this urge from him, he might find out later and feel betrayed.
For me, this is a new experience as with other partners this has never been an issue.
But then I recently discovered him cheating on me during his work trips.